Five Pillars of Strong, Professional Student-Tutor Relationships

Purpose: Strong relationships between students and tutors are grounded in five key pillars: Respect, Trust, Confidence, Motivation, and Self-Awareness. Use the pillars as foundational elements to create a positive, productive tutoring experience and emulate the examples of strong practice.

PillarDefinitionExample of Strong Practice
RespectCreating a learning environment where students feel valued, heard, and guided by fair and consistent expectations.Tutors consistently uphold clear expectations while showing appreciation for students’ time and effort. Students respond by actively engaging and following established routines.
TrustBuilding a reliable and consistent relationship in which students feel emotionally and academically safe.Tutors follow through on their commitments, use respectful language, and model consistency—even in challenging moments—creating a safe space for student growth.
ConfidenceEncouraging students to take academic risks and believe in their ability to learn and succeed.Tutors regularly express belief in students’ abilities and set high expectations. They support students through challenges, celebrating progress and persistence.
MotivationInspiring students to engage with content by connecting it to their interests, goals, and real-life relevance.Tutors personalize learning by relating session content to students’ interests and short- and long-term goals, helping students see the value in their learning.
Self-AwarenessHelping students recognize their strengths and areas for growth while fostering reflection and accountability.Tutors openly discuss students’ progress constructively, helping them set and monitor goals while celebrating effort and achievement.